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Tuesday, May 7

Three Missing US Women Found Alive After a Decade

The Door That Was Knocked Down to Facilitate Their Escape
Ohio police has found three women who went missing in separate incidents for a decade alive in a house in Cleveland.

According to reports, Amanda Berry disappeared in 2003 at the age of 16, Gina DeJesus disappeared the following year at the age of 14, and Michelle Knight was the first to go missing a year before Amanda at the age of 20.

There was also report of a child, about six years of age, found with the women, but its identity and connection with the people of the house have been kept confidential.

Amanda Berry
According to Cleveland Police, Charles Ramsey, a neighbour, was startled by screams coming from the house close by. He was rushed to the building where he found a girl struggling to get outside.

Ramsey suggested the woman open the door and exit, but she told him it was locked.



“We had to kick open the bottom. Luckily on that door it was aluminum, it was cheap. She climbed out with her daughter,” he said.  After which Amanda, the woman, used his cell phone to call the authorities.

In the recorded phone call, Amanda tells the 911 emergency operator, “Help me! I’m Amanda Berry. I’ve been kidnapped and I’ve been missing for 10 years and I’m here. I’m free now.” She gave the operator the name of her alleged kidnapper, adding that he was “out of the house.”


The police said that the women have been identified, and taken to the hospital, where the doctors have given them each a clean bill of health.

In a meeting with reporters, Cleveland Mayor Frank Jackson said, “I am thankful that Amanda Berry, Gina DeJesus and Michelle Knight have been found alive. We have many unanswered questions regarding this case, and the investigation will be ongoing.”

He added, “Again, I am thankful that these three young ladies are found, and alive.”

The families of the women have had a mixture of shock and delight at the news of their rescue.

Sylvia Colon, a relative of Gina DeJesus, said the family had never given up hope, holding vigils every year and keeping memorials outside the house.

“It’s been a whirlwind kind of day. It’s surreal. We were living every day in the hope she would come home – and she did”, she told BBC.

Gina DeJesus
Gina DeJesus disappeared on April 2, 2004, while walking home from school. According to the federal authorities, she was last sighted at a payphone booth in the afternoon that day.

Amanda Berry, who worked at a fast food restaurant just a few blocks from her home, went missing on April 21, 2003, after leaving work in the evening. Her mother, Louwana, died three years after Amanda’s disappearance.

Michelle Knight went missing on August 23, 2002. She was last seen at a cousin’s house, according to the reports from Cleveland Plain Dealer.

The Police have arrested three brothers in connection to the disappearances after the three victims were 
found in a house, just a few kilometers from where they disappeared.

One of the brothers, Ariel Castro, 52, was a bus driver for Cleveland public schools, which the Cleveland school district has confirmed, with no specifics.

His Uncle, Caesar Castro, who has known Ariel to be “a good guy”, was shocked to know that his nephew held captive three women in a house which is on the same street where his grocery store stands.

It was ironical that Ariel’s son, Anthony, had written an article about the increasing concern for safety in the neighbourhood, while reflecting the disappearance of Gina DeJesus for his local newspaper in 2004.

Friday, May 3

Ever Wondered Why Women are attracted to the ‘Bad Boy’ Personality?

“There is a split between love for men they see as good, dependable and reliable, and desire for men they see as exciting, reckless, and dangerous…bad boys.”   - Anonymous

Peter Jonason of New Mexico University conducted a study of 200 male college students to determine why narcissists, risk-seekers and liars have not been made extinct due to their undesirable traits. What he found was astonishing.

Apparently, he found out that most women want self-obsessed, lying psychopaths for partners.  Men with these traits had more sexual partners and a greater desire for short-term hookups.

Now, wait a minute . . . . . we are here for answers, not to criticize the personality that thousands of guys are desperate to adopt; the very personality that seems to make women feel “on top of the world”.

You don’t need a spiritualist to tell you who they are or what they look like. From local and international celebrities, to your very next door neighbor, men with the “bad boy” traits are well known in our society.

The average bad boy has certain traits that make the society see him for what he is. But, before we can fully understand why these complex beings called “females” are attracted to these personality, we have to understand the psychology behind the average bad boy.

Bad boys are devilishly charming, at least most of them. They have this aura around them that gives them the ability to suck out the oxygen in any room and get the ladies staring till their eyes literally fall out.

Bad boys are confident. I mean that kind of confidence where they can stare into your eyes without blinking. This trait gives them the power to tell lies to your face without flinching and get out of tight situations without looking guilty.

Another trait is independence. I can’t really call them “principled”, but bad boys like to stand on their own and make decisions regardless of how it affects others. They really don’t give a damn what you think and they don’t care who they upset to meet their objectives, so long as it favors them alone.


Bad boys are more like control freaks. They are very possessive.  They like to play the “alpha male” in every group, brag about what they’ve got and be the center of attraction in every social gathering or function. They don’t take ‘no’ for an answer, and they certainly don’t share their “prized” possessions with anyone. Not ever!

Bad boys are risk-takers in their own right. They can fight for what is theirs (and what is not theirs), and can make the other guy look silly just to get the girl. They do not spend time trying to analyze the situation they just “go with the flow”.

Another trait exhibited by these trouble makers is spontaneity. Bad boys are very spontaneous. They are fun lovers and seekers. They love to do the things women can only dream about or read in books, no matter how twisted it may sound. It’s a trait every woman would desire to see in her man, because it is as though the man knows exactly what goes on in their heads, knows what they need without saying the words and gives them without objections.

However, not every bad boy possesses these traits, as most bad boys rely on their bank accounts to get any lady they so desire. But, it is important to note that one or more of these traits must be present in every guy with bad boy personality.

This is true, because most ladies will definitely get bored of a guy who has enough money to throw around, but does not possess the “genes” of the bad boy she’s been dreaming about. Money is definitely not everything.

It should be understood here, that I am not in any way trying to give the “bad boy” personality some credit. The average bad boy only represents the fantasies of most women who desire men that can give them that confidence they need to express their darkest desires without fear of the consequences.  

In the end, a bad boy refuses to be tied to one woman, so he will continue seek pleasure in others. Some will let their possessive attitude turn them into living nightmares. Some will continue to play with the hearts of unsuspecting females, because the fun is way too much to ignore. Others will physically and emotionally abuse women, because they believe they are too indispensable for any woman to live without.


The “bad boy” personality is simply a personality. Every man will get tired of playing that role, and find a responsible woman to settle down with, while every woman will shrug off their thirst for a bad boy, and settle for a “real man”.

Food for thought…….

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